There was a time when I thought transformation only happened on the outside.
I wanted to look a certain way. I chased procedures, treatments, perfection — thinking that if I fixed the surface, the inside would finally feel right. But real change didn’t come from chasing youth or trends. It came when I started paying attention to how things made me feel.
That’s what this episode of Party’s Over is really about.
Jewelry That Supports Your Energy
When I sit with my dear friend Andrea Grossman — a fine jeweler, gemologist, and crystal healer — I’m reminded that jewelry isn’t just decoration. It’s intention. It’s energy. It’s memory.
Andrea doesn’t just design beautiful pieces; she reads people. She tunes into where you are in your life and helps you choose gemstones that support that chapter. Emeralds for heart-opening and love. Rose quartz for gentleness and healing. Evil eyes for protection. Every piece has meaning, history, and purpose.
Some people get tattoos to mark moments in their lives. I wear my stories — my love, my losses, my hopes — in jewelry I carry with me every day.
Transformation Happens in Layers
This episode isn’t just about jewelry — it’s about layers.
Layers of healing.
Layers of style.
Layers of growth.
As Andrea and I talk, we reflect on how our journeys have evolved. From heartbreak to empowerment. From grief to radiance. From surviving to truly living. What you wear can remind you who you are — and who you’re becoming.
When Friendships Turn Shady
Then comes the Spill It segment — and this conversation hits home for so many women.
We talk about shady friendships: the subtle jealousy, the gaslighting, the emotional leeches, the people who take more than they give. We share stories of friends who crossed boundaries, betrayed trust, or quietly rooted against us.
Here’s the truth I’ve learned the hard way:
If someone gives you anxiety, they are not your friend.
If someone only makes withdrawals and never deposits, they don’t deserve access to you.
As we get older, we learn to choose better. We learn to say no. We learn that guilt is not a reason to keep toxic people in our lives.
Choose What Supports You
Jewelry. Friendships. Energy. Boundaries.
What you allow around you shapes your life.
This episode is an invitation to choose what supports you — to wear your worth, protect your energy, and surround yourself with people who truly celebrate you.
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