The Party’s Over with Sandra Silverman
Welcome to The Party’s Over, the show where beauty, heartbreak, and brutal honesty collide. Each week, host Sandra Lena Silverman spills the truth about aging, love, and everything in between. Expect laughter, wisdom, and the occasional Botox confession. Real women telling real stories and sharing real talk.
Each podcast unfolds in three delightful segments.
From Bullshit to Botox
Aging is not for the faint of heart (or the filterless). In this segment, Sandra spills the unvarnished truth about everything from lasers and lip fillers to facelifts and facials. Whether it’s invasive, noninvasive, or just insane, she’s tried it: and she’ll tell you what’s worth it.
From Bullshit to Heartbreak
Grab the tissues—and maybe the tequila. This is where Sandra dives into the messy, magical, sometimes-maddening world of relationships. From narcissists to new beginnings, she unpacks it all with a healthy dose of “been there, Botoxed that.”
Spill It
Ever wanted to ask what everyone’s really thinking? Now’s your chance. In this audience-favorite segment, Sandra reads your wildest, rawest, and funniest listener emails—and answers them with her trademark mix of sass, empathy, and zero filter.
Current Episode

What we talked about
In this Episode of Party’s Over, Sandra Lena Silverman dives into two topics every woman needs clarity on: skin rejuvenation without needles and setting boundaries with narcissists—without guilt.
First, Sandra and Veida break down PRX Derm Perfection, a needle-free skin treatment designed to boost glow and texture without fillers, lasers, or microneedling. Veida shares her real experience, including what it feels like, downtime, cost, maintenance, and who this treatment is (and isn’t) for.
Then, Sandra is joined by clinical psychologist Dr. Justine Weber for a powerful conversation on narcissistic relationships—how to spot early red flags, why love-bombing and gaslighting create confusion, and why healthy relationships should feel calm, not chaotic.
This episode is about clarity—for your skin, your relationships, and your life. Like, subscribe, and share Party’s Over for more unfiltered conversations.
Past Episodes

Episode 112
Length 26:16 Airdate: 1-9-2025
"Cooking Up Confidence and Calling Out Social Media Lies"
What we talked about
In this Episode of Party’s Over, Sandra mixes real life, real talk, and real lessons—starting in the kitchen. Joined by Chef Isaac Pearlman, she learns how to make sweet crepes from scratch, proving that cooking skills can be learned at any age (even if the first one isn’t perfect).
Next, Sandra and Veida dive into a candid conversation about toxic social media—from comparison culture and influencer illusions to how digital habits affect kids, relationships, confidence, and mental health. Honest insight on when to unplug, reset, and protect your peace.
The episode closes with a Spill It advice segment tackling a heartfelt parenting question: Should a musically gifted teen be pushed toward college—or allowed to follow his passion? A thoughtful discussion on education, creativity, and choosing the right path without pressure.
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What we talked about
In Episode 115 of Party’s Over, Sandra Lena Silverman dives into jewelry, energy, empowerment—and how to spot (and release) shady friendships.
Joined by fine jeweler, gemologist, and crystal healer Andrea Grossman, Sandra explores how gemstones, crystals, and intentional jewelry can support confidence, healing, love, and personal transformation. From heart-chakra emeralds to protective symbols, this conversation is about wearing meaning—not just style.
The episode closes with a Spill It segment where Sandra, Nancy, and Erica unpack the emotional reality of toxic and one-sided friendships—jealousy, gaslighting, guilt, people-pleasing, and the red flags we often ignore. A raw, honest discussion about boundaries, intuition, and choosing relationships that truly support you.
This episode is a reminder that what you surround yourself with — jewelry or people — directly affects your energy, your confidence, and your life. Listen, subscribe, and share to help grow the Party’s Over community. Buy Sandra’s book: From BS to Botox — available now.

What we talked about
In this episode of Party’s Over, Sandra Silverman and co-host Veida explore how your smile and your attachment style shape confidence and connection.
Featuring cosmetic dentist Dr. Susan Raw, the episode breaks down veneers, cosmetic dentistry options, and what to know before making major dental decisions. In the second half, licensed therapist Jennifer Clearwaters explains the four attachment styles and how they impact dating and relationships. Honest, educational, and empowering.
This episode is about understanding yourself from the outside in.

Episode 113
Length 37:25 Airdate: 12-30-2025
“Botox, Sneaky Links & Spill It: Commitment Before Intimacy”
What we talked about
In this episode of Party’s Over, Sandra Silverman and co-host Veida dive into three deeply connected conversations about beauty, boundaries, and self-respect.
The episode opens with an honest breakdown of Botox, what it actually does, common myths and “alternatives,” and why injector experience, transparency, and medical training matter far more than trends or price.
Next, Sandra and Vita are joined by Netflix relationship expert Spicy Mari (Sneaky Links: Dating After Dark) to unpack modern dating dynamics. Together, they explore the difference between sneaky links and situationships, why intimacy without clarity leaves women emotionally drained, and how commitment gets delayed in today’s dating culture.
The episode closes with a Spill It advice segment tackling a question many women struggle with: Should women wait for commitment before sex if they want a serious relationship? Spicy Mari shares practical guidance on exclusivity vs. commitment, dating by season of life, and her 90-day framework for women seeking long-term partnership. This episode is candid, empowering, and unfiltered—reminding women that standards aren’t outdated, boundaries aren’t selfish, and clarity is a form of self-respect.

Episode 111
Length 32:43 Airdate: 12-17-2025
“Ozempic, Money Control, and the Cost of Blind Trust”
What we talked about
Welcome back to Party’s Over. In this episode, Sandra Silverman is joined by Registered Dietitian and Nutritionist Jacqueline Christian to unpack two deeply personal—and often misunderstood—topics: Ozempic/GLP-1 medications and financial control in relationships.
They break down how GLP-1 drugs work for diabetic patients, why they exploded as a weight-loss trend, and what can go wrong without medical oversight, proper nutrition, or long-term planning. The conversation covers muscle loss, collagen depletion, “Ozempic face,” metabolism changes, protein deficiency, telehealth prescribing, and what happens when the medication stops.
The episode then shifts into an important emotional discussion on financial toxicity—when money becomes a tool for control, fear, or manipulation in relationships—and how it quietly impacts confidence, autonomy, and self-worth.
If you’re navigating wellness culture, weight loss trends, emotional boundaries, or financial empowerment, this episode offers science, clarity, and honest perspective.

Episode 110
Length 32:43 Airdate: 12-17-2025
“Biohacked Beauty and Dating App Nightmares”
What we talked about
Welcome to Party’s Over! Today we talk about the beauty hustle — the gym, lashes, hair, nails, dietary discipline, extensions, salon visits, and the emotional pressure behind “effortless” glamour. Sandy, Erica, and Nancy get real about how much time beauty routines can take, which treatments they love, and which ones they wish they could skip forever.
Then Sandy welcomes special guest Nina Wallen, a college relationship voice, who opens up about online dating culture — Tinder, Bumble, hookups, texting instead of dating, splitting the check, chivalry, and how technology has shifted what young adults expect from love and intimacy. Whether you’re juggling family, work, beauty pressure, or a modern dating life, this episode gives you honesty, shortcuts, empowerment, and clarity.

Episode 109
Length 38:50 Airdate: 12-15-2025
“The EVE Lift & Celebrity Procedures: What Surgeons Want You to Know”
What we talked about
In this episode of Party’s Over, Sandy and co-host Nancy sit down with world-renowned facelift surgeon Dr. Ali C., creator of the EVE Lift — a fully customized approach to facial rejuvenation that goes far beyond traditional techniques. He breaks down how facelifts have evolved, why the “one-size-fits-all” method fails, and how hormones, toxins, lifestyle, and even the skin microbiome play major roles in healing and results.
From celebrity expectations to surgeon red flags to the surprising truth about endoscopic facelifts, this episode is packed with insight you won’t hear anywhere else.
Whether you’re facelift-curious, already planning a procedure, or just fascinated by the science of staying youthful, this is a must-listen conversation.

What we talked about
In this episode of Party’s Over, Sandy dives into Red Light Therapy and the Laws of Attraction—what they are, how they work, and why so many people are talking about them. Expect an open, honest conversation exploring the science, the mindset, and the misconceptions behind two of today’s most buzzed-about wellness topics.







Today's Inspiration - Sandra's Daughter Zara tells her story
What we talked about
In this episode of Party’s Over, Sandy dives into one of the hottest trends in modern facial rejuvenation: the endoscopic facelift. With special guest Dr. Gregory Albert, a surgeon known for pioneering and teaching this minimally invasive technique, Sandy and co-host Veida break down how the procedure works, what results it can achieve, and who is the ideal candidate.

Episode 106
Length 28:57 Airdate: 12-03-2025
“Microneedling Myths, Results, and Real Talk + How to Spot a Fraudster”
What we talked about
In today’s episode, Sandra, Erica, and special guest Mariana, a non-surgical lifting specialist. Dive into the world of microneedling for the face and body: what works, what doesn’t, what hurts, and what you must know before trying it. Then, in the Relationship Segment, Sandy and Erica break down fraudsters, catfishing, red flags, narcissists, and online dating traps, with real stories that will have you nodding along (or gasping). Finally, in “Spill It”, a viewer writes in: “I’m dating a new guy and he keeps asking me to sext. It’s not me. What do I do?” The ladies don’t hold back.

What we talked about
Fillers can lift, sculpt, and refresh when they are chosen thoughtfully. Injector Denise Santoli breaks down HA fillers vs bio-stimulators, Radiesse vs Sculptra, longevity, migration, and why “pillow face” happens. Then we switch gears to gaslighting in love and friendship, with real stories and simple boundaries that protect your peace. “Spill It” Q&A closes the show.

What we talked about
Ever wondered how holistic medicine really differs from conventional care? Dr. Nadia explains when to use each and how to blend them for better health. Sandy shares her dengue fever story and what finally helped. Then we shift to standards vs. settling in love and friendships, with a real-world Q&A on handling a gossiping friend.

Episode 103
Length 21:39 Airdate: 11-21-2025
“From IV Drips to Four Divorces — Healing, Resilience, and Red Flags”
What we talked about
Sandra digs into wellness hype vs. real benefit: IV drips, intramuscular shots, and when convenience beats capacity. Later, coach Kim Nelson shares the unvarnished truth about four marriages and four divorces, escaping control, and rebuilding from scratch. In “Spill It,” Sandra tackles a boundary-busting letter about a fiancé who hosted friends… and a prostitute.

Episode 102
Length 26:05 Airdate: 11-19-2025
“From Facelifts to Freedom: Beauty Truths and Breaking Free from Emotional Abuse”
What we talked about
Sandra and Veida get candid about cosmetic procedures that age well vs. ones to avoid, how to choose a surgeon, and when “enough is enough.” Then licensed therapist Samantha Delvecchio breaks down emotional abuse: what it looks like, why people stay, and how to rebuild. In “Spill It,” Sandra answers a question about dating again after procedures.

Episode 101
Length 21:01 Airdate: 11-17-2025
“Peptides/Escaping Toxic Relationships”
What we talked about
When people ask me about the “secret” to looking and feeling younger, I tell them this: there is no single secret. Real vitality comes from a mix of science, self-care, and self-respect. On this week’s episode of Party’s Over, I explore two powerful themes—peptides and toxic relationships—that may seem worlds apart but actually share a common thread: healing from the inside out.






























